Your Real Competition Lives in the Mirror

Executive Business Coach Lindie Malan

Stop looking sideways.

You’re watching what competitors do. Measuring yourself against industry benchmarks. Obsessing over who’s ahead, who’s falling behind.

You’re looking in the wrong direction.

Alistair McCaw got it right when he said the real competition is showing up consistently. Every single day. Not once in a while, when you feel inspired. Not when the conditions are perfect. Daily.

The maths behind this will change how you work.

The Compound Effect of Daily Decisions

Improve by 1% daily, and you double your performance in 72 days. Keep going for a year? You achieve over 37 times more improvement.

Now flip it. Decline by 1% daily, and you lose 97% of your value over the same period.

Read those numbers again.

This creates a massive gap between people who make slightly better decisions daily and those who don’t. Small choices feel insignificant in the moment. Over time, they compound into extraordinary differences.

Here’s what this means for you: the decisions you make today matter less than the decisions you make every day.

Dave Brailsford proved this with British Cycling. After a century of mediocre performance, his team won 59 world championships over the next decade.

Eight gold medals at the 2008 Olympics. Eight more in 2012.

His approach? The aggregation of marginal gains:

Finding the right pillow for better sleep. Testing massage gels. Teaching proper hand-washing to avoid infection. One percent improvements in everything.

Nothing dramatic. Nothing revolutionary. Just relentless attention to small details, repeated daily.

Why Consistency Beats Intensity

Angela Duckworth interviewed successful high achievers and found something surprising. They rarely talked about intensity. They talked about consistency.

Not working harder. Not pushing through. Showing up.

Research shows both dimensions of grit matter. Perseverance of effort helps you achieve mastery despite failure. Consistency of interest drives the deliberate practice needed to gain mastery.

Translation: you need both. The ability to persist when things get hard, and the commitment to keep doing the work even when it gets boring.

Your workplace proves this daily. Employees perform better when the level of challenging tasks stays consistent.

When challenge levels fluctuate? Performance drops. People report less attentiveness and more anxiety. Task performance suffers.

Stable challenge levels create the opposite effect:

  • More attentiveness
  • Less anxiety
  • Higher performance

The pattern holds everywhere. Sports. Business. Creative work. Consistency wins.

The Boring Middle Nobody Talks About

Here’s what makes consistency hard.

Habit formation takes around 66 days on average. Ten weeks of daily repetition before a behaviour becomes automatic. The range varies widely across people and behaviours.

Ten weeks.

During those weeks, you’re running on willpower and motivation. Both are finite. Both run out.

Research shows 43% of daily behaviours happen out of habit. The rest? Conscious effort. Every single time.

Finding the behaviour rewarding speeds up habit formation. Frequency alone doesn’t cut it. You need to feel something positive from the action itself, not wait for the result.

This is where most people quit.

The boring middle where progress feels invisible. Youโ€™ve been showing up for three weeks and see zero results. Where your competitor launches something flashy whilst you’re still doing the basics.

Showing up matters more here than feeling motivated.

Alistair McCaw works with elite athletes and top performers. His observation: the difference between good and great performers lies in their daily habits and discipline.

Success comes down to three things:

  • Your environment
  • The people around you
  • The choices you make every day

Champion-minded people have a vision and purpose. They commit to excellence daily. Not when they feel like it. Daily.

Building Your Consistency Framework

Start with clarity. Define the specific daily behaviours that move you towards your goals.

Vague intentions produce vague results. Specific actions produce measurable progress.

Make it specific: “Exercise more” becomes “20-minute walk at 7am.” “Improve leadership” becomes “15-minute one-on-one with each team member weekly.”

Notice the difference? One is a wish. The other is a decision.

Track progress visibly: Create a simple system that shows your streak. A calendar with marks. A spreadsheet. Whatever makes the pattern visible to you.

Design your environment: Remove friction from the behaviours you want. Add friction to behaviours you’re avoiding.

Examples: Put your running shoes by the bed. Delete social media apps from your phone. Move the biscuit tin to the back of the cupboard.

Build recovery into the system: Consistency doesn’t mean perfection. It means showing up even when you don’t feel like it.

It also means knowing when rest serves the long-term goal better than pushing through. Burnout kills consistency faster than anything else.

Connect to values: Your daily behaviours should reflect what matters to you. When consistency aligns with your core values, maintaining it becomes easier. You’re not forcing yourself to do something. You’re expressing who you are.

The Unsexy Truth

Nobody writes case studies about showing up on Tuesday.

We celebrate breakthroughs and transformations. The dramatic turnaround. The overnight success we know took 10 years.

The real work happens in the unremarkable middle.

The days when nothing feels different. When you don’t see progress. When the gap between where you are and where you want to be feels overwhelming.

Those are the days that matter most.

Why? Because those are the days when you choose who you become.

Your competition isn’t the business down the street or the colleague gunning for the same promotion. Your competition is the version of you who skips today because tomorrow feels easier.

Show up anyway.

The maths will take care of the rest.

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Written by Lindie Malan, Executive Business Coach, South Africa
www.lindiemalan.co.za

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